Sunday, October 25, 2009

Name Game

As most of you know, this is the first child we are getting to name since Garth Lee was a non-choice being the fourth generation Garth (although I love it). It is a lot harder than I thought to pick out a name that will be this child's his whole life--no pressure though.

We really like family names (obviously) and we want to use them at least for a part of the name. Garth's side got the first kid, so this time I would like to name our son after my side (and Garth agrees). Luckily my dad's name is James Randall, both names that are definitely usable. Garth Lee is learning to read and so he is really recognizing not only all the words that start with a "g"--which he started noticing when he started to recognize his ABC's, he is also loving all words with a "g" in them...and therefore are all his "favorite" words. We have debated having a "g" theme with our kids names since I don't plan on having a Duggar style family, I feel like we can do this without eventually having to have a Gwynward (sorry if someone likes that name). Of course Garth Lee loves this idea, but he doesn't love so much the "g" names I have come up with...except one: Gavin, which Garth and I both LOVE, but Garth has a cousin and a cousin's child that are both named Gavin...but I can also make the argument that there are like 10 Davids on both sides too...so it doesn't necessarily rule it out, plus I've seen his cousin Gavin maybe 3 times in the 10 years we have been together and I have never even met the cousin who named her child Gavin and most likely never will. Before we decided to go with Gavin (which we really like with James), we decided on Jackson Randall for the boy name and call him Jax for short but Garth Lee didn't like it because he has a Jackson in his class that he doesn't care for too much, but we decided that was it anyways...until we found out it was a boy and Garth Lee decided the name was going to be Gavin and it sounded and felt right to all of us.

Anyways...I know there are lots of people who don't like sharing the baby names before they are born, which I understand, but I don't really care and at least if someone steals it and I have already made it public that I picked it, then there is no debate on who had it first ;)...I have documented proof.

I thought the decision was made, but last night when Garth and I were making the trek back to the car after the Tech game he said that he really still likes Jackson Randall, but he still likes Gavin James too. I'm all supportive of those that say "after we see him/her we will just know", but that doesn't help me when I really want to monogram stuff...(see below)

This is the bedding that I LOVE and think I might get--thanks Amanda for the very $$$ idea ;)

So, I guess we have narrowed it down to either Gavin James or Jackson Randall (Jax). Let me know what you think.

5 comments:

Spencer and Jenny said...

Spencer and I vote Jackson Randall. Soooo excited to have a little compadre for Caroline.

San Diego Spendloves said...

They are both very, very cute names. You can't go wrong with either.

Amanda said...

The bedding is so cute. For sure get it! As for the name, this is a hard one. I think Gavin is super cute and although Garth does have family members with the name, I haven't heard it alot. But, I love the nickname Jax. I am going to go with Jackson Randall even though I hate going against Garth Lee!

Brooke said...

I wonder if there will be a lot of Jacksons coming up since Michael Jackson died...something to ponder...

Thanks for the comments so far, keep 'em coming.

Mimi said...

You asked for a comment and here it is. G's is going to be the big brother to serve and protect his little brother. What better way to connect than for him to be the one to choose his name? He thinks that G's are great and so do I. You asked for it and you got it. Just remember how you reacted when a name was suggested that you knew someone you did not care for had the same name....